Pearl of the Pacific, Sashimi in ice globe, stunning starter at the Dinner under the Stars.

SHERATON MAUI: I want to TALK about Hawaii and Tradition. Like a Fiddler on the Roof, there is the Cliff Dive at Black Rock … only the music is a chant that tells a tale. David and I ended our Maui trip with a few days at the enchanting Sheraton Maui Resort and Spa, just to soak up the culture, the peace, and enjoy our favorite beach. And to relax in our beautiful room overlooking the serene grounds and the gorgeous sunsets. With a comfy bed, a fridge loaded with local goodies, it was good to it call home, even for our little while….

We shared the romantic/dramatic Cliff Dive experience with the excellent Bianca Rodas, Public Relations Manager, who is young and lovely and so full of enthusiasm for their traditions.

In honor of Hawaiian royalty that once called Ka`anapali home, the nightly tradition of torch lighting and cliff diving began in the ‘60s. Shortly before sunset each evening, a young warrior dressed in the traditional “malo” (loincloth) sets torches aflame shedding light upon the lush lawns. (It’s very cute when the courteous warrior pauses for requested photos.) The story of King Kahekili and Pu`u Keka`a is told as we watched from Cliff Dive Bar (where we enjoyed perfect pupus), as the torches finally flame on the crest of Black Rock where he offers his torch and flower lei and dives off Black Rock.

History and Culture at the Sheraton, Maui: Cliff Dive at Black Rock.

I’m such a tourist. But ever since I read James Michener’s great novel Hawaii, I’m hooked in the best of ways.

Our new buddy, Bianca, is very excited about the Sheraton Maui’s new partnership with the innovative Maui Brewing Company, for the creation of the Black Rock Lager served exclusively at the resort’s pool bars and lounges. The lager is named after the legendary lava rock formation which Hawaiians believe is one of three `uhane lele, a place where souls of the dead leap from earth into their ancestral spirit land and where only a person with great spiritual strength can enter that world and return. What a brew-tiful inspiration!

Sunset at Black Rock, Sheraton, Maui.

DINNER UNDER THE STARS: An elite oceanfront dining experience can be yours in a romantic setting of choice. From a poolside gazebo with a waterfall background, or on the spacious lawn (12,000 square feet!) surrounded by tiki torches. Or, our choice, a secluded oceanfront open air dining house that looked like the Teahouse of the August Moon, just footsteps from Ka`anapali Beach. A forever to remember evening. Our on-hand personal butler, Al Idnay, practicing perfect Aloha, made the evening complete. I never take for granted a perfectly sumptuous steak or a salad of fresh Kula greens, but the starter was sheer drama. In an icy globe, the size of a bowling ball, the front was chiseled out for a presentation of fresh sashimi and other ocean delectables. It tasted as dynamic as it looked and it’s not called “Pearl of the Pacific” for nothing. Special!

Most special, the practice of Aloha is personified by the Sheraton’s “Starwish,” a non-profit fundraising project motivated by the Starwood associates, the employees, who create events to help those in need. We were lucky to arrive just in time for the Easter Ducky Race. Residents signed up and were assigned a rubber ducky (in hula attire). This flotilla of duckys gathered at a far end of the great pool (with two strong fellows making waves behind them to keep it moving). Screams of delight as they reached the finish line and the winners collect their prizes. Good fun, good cause, good people.

My favorite thing is walking by the ocean (or in the ocean) and this arching sandy beach goes on and on … past the Whalers Village, nearly to Lahaina Town. Get a sense of all this pleasantness on the Internet and see for yourself the beach, the resort, the food, and the cliff dive. This is definitely a come back to place.

ABOVE AND BEYOND

Whale Watchers.

During our split stay, our first week gave us Mark. “Mahalo” is “Thank you” in Hawaiian. “Mark” means “friend” in any language. Mark Mrantz is General Manager of the Aston Ka’anapali Shores, where we enjoyed a belated anniversary/birthday for David. We met our new friend Mark, along with his Rooms Manager Kevin Reiss, at their resort’s Beach Club Restaurant. Their warmth matched the weather and the conversation became like that of old best friends. Mark’s tales of his father were intriguing and if I wasn’t married I might have asked for an introduction. And Kevin’s comments on his wife’s cooking made me wish for a sample. Luckily, their restaurant’s food was delicious, really home style with great variety plus quality. It’s really perfect to have a simple and comfortable place to eat right where you are living, no need for a car. And leftovers can go right to the room for a future lunch. All that and more Aloha.… The next day, gifts from Mark flowed into our room like the waves just beyond our balcony. A bottle of good Merlot, boxes of ever tempting chocolate covered Macadamia nuts, and best of all, a hand-written card explaining the Hawaiian custom of gifting new friends after a first meeting.

Whale. (Doesn’t it resemble Audrey 2 from “Little Shop of Horrors”?)

I had asked Mark about what he’d like people to know about the Ka’anapali Shores. Without a pause he said, “The people.” His dedication and caring for his staff is touching and was validated during our stay. No request seems impossible. Or, a request was barely needed. During our dinner, I told a silly — but true — story about me accidentally pulling the faucet out of the wall while trying to get out of the bathtub. The next morning, a maintenance man appeared at our door and installed a bar to assist my future exits. The coffee maker, which needed help, was replaced in about five minutes with a brand new one. We received considerate advice to work the DVD player. And when a front tooth fell out, Mark produced a local dentist who saw me immediately to put the tooth back where it belonged.

But sweetest of all, because I mentioned the goal of this delayed celebration, an invitation to a Whale Watching adventure came our way. My dream was to see a whale and Mark made it happen. It was the kindest of surprises and a pure example of the Practice of Aloha.

Do your self a favor and check the Aston Ka’anapali Shores on the Internet. It is swimming with special deals. For families, seniors, singles, doubles. Our view of Maui inland and ocean was beautiful. And the full kitchen helped us dine in at will, complete with large fridge, garbage disposal, stove, oven, dishwasher … fully equipped. This was a condo that we rented. Sweet deal, sweet people.

The next week, we moved next door to Diamond’s Ka’anapali Beach Club, a huge pink paradise with a big pool where I did my White Tiger Wellness workouts. Monumental Mahalo’s to my lovely teacher Cassie Roblee and to Vincent Nolasco. Empowerment both physically and mentally. Chi, Chi, Chi….

PACIFIC WHALE FOUNDATION

We experienced Maui’s unique ocean environment with Pacific Whale Foundation’s expert team. We were on an Eco raft with a special motor that does not disturb the whales. Following the rules of not getting closer than 100 feet, our team found several pods of whales going about their business. The calves were gaining weight, preparing for the trip north’s cold waters. The mothers lived on their own blubber; so to speak, their purpose was to nourish the young. On top of everything, it was mating season and the adult males were serious about proving their dominance over the other guys. (Funny, with all this reality in front of my thrilled face, I thought of the old cartoon, “Willie the Whale.” He was voiced by Nelson Eddy, my then hero.) The real whales’ voices are like an underwater chorus. No one knows what they are saying, but they do know how to let us listen to their music. Chillingly majestic. “oooo, ooo,ooooooooooooo”

 … We’ll Talk.

WAS IT THE LAST AFTRA NATIONAL BOARD MEETING?

Paul Peterson, recipient of AFTRA’s Founder Award. Former child star, Paul is now a child’s rights advocate and formed A Minor Consideration.

As I write, the results of the SAG-AFTRA merger vote are unknown. But, as this issue hits the stands, we should know if we have one union — or, if fear and false statements have conquered. Obviously, the AFTRA Leadership was optimistic because last Sunday, tears of happiness and gratitude marked the day, at what may have been the last AFTRA National Board Meeting (I hope).

Two Amazonian AFTRA women, like Valkyries, deciding who should fall in battle … striding into union flames, were crying like proud parents, thrilled by the action taken by their courageous Board and membership. And we were thrilled for them, qvelling for the joys inherent of our National Executive Director Kim Roberts Hedgpeth and National President Roberta Reardon. With the conviction of doing the right thing, these gallant gals gave their best and are the best.

So, normal business was tended to, however with many standing ovations for all reports and for the members who gave so many hours working on the fine points of creating a new union. The magnificent Roberta presented Founders Awards. The passionate Paul Peterson was recognized for his tireless work for young performers, Belva Davis, who is retiring after six breakthrough decades as a newsperson, and also to AFTRA National Executive Kim Roberts Hedgpeth for her life-long dedication to the labor movement and AFTRA.

So after many heartfelt thanks and proud goodbyes, will it be time for the big Hello? Tune in tomorrow.

RETURN OF SOME PRODIGAL GRANDDOGS

New family in town, our granddogs, Harper Lee, Huck, and Kobe.

David’s son, Dean Lawrence, has resettled in Los Angeles. While finding a new nest, his dogs have visited us a few times, much to the pleasant surprise of our little dog Skye. So, an official welcome to Kobe, Huck, and Harper Lee, grand dogs all (I hope I spelled your name right). It’s nice to have Dean, a tour manager for major musical acts, back in town too … he’s a really good cook!

BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS

It’s whom you know. Mary Willard, now President of Big Brothers Big Sisters, hosted a table and presided at their Accessories for Success luncheon. (Jo Anne Worley took every opportunity to bring fun to the Fashion showings, following the gainly models with mirth and mischief.) All this merriment — for the cause of mentoring — included longtime supporters Jeffrey Katzenberg, Sarah Purcell, who has been a shining light, and hostess Amber Valletta. Honors went to Anne Globe (Head of Worldwide Marketing, DreamWorks Animation), and Sharon Harroun Peirce (Director, Brit Week & Director, LA’s Best). I nominate Mary Willard for any award for finding a good thing and then working like crazy to make it better. Big Brothers Big Sisters is a good thing and I wish I had one when I was a kid. Their mission, “to help children in need reach their potential through professionally supported, one-to-one mentoring relationships.” Their history, “Walt Disney and Meredith Willson founded Big Brothers of Greater Los Angeles in 1955 to help ensure the wellbeing of boys growing up without fathers in Angeles. In 1978, Big Sisters of Los Angeles became a non-profit organization. Now they are merged for the betterment of all.”

Busy people are mentors, how about you?

Now, as March is ending, some Ides must wait until a later day. Taxes are gathered, organizing is a lifelong thing, and time must be taken for friends. But isn’t it nice to know that good and caring people abound …

We’ll Talk.

Claudia Bassols, star of the hit TV show “Rob,” lent her support and sparkle dust at Petco Foundation’s Hope Gala.

I want to Talk about abundant generosity from one animal welfare organization to another. This is not about commerce but about caring. Above and beyond.

Those who have read this column (for more than several decades) know that Actors and Others for Animals has been my baby since it was born over 40 years ago. Now, by the greatest of good fortune, A&O has become the 2012 Godchild of The Petco Foundation, and is the blessed recipient of all the funds raised at their Fourth Annual Hope Gala.

Infinity of gratitude.…

STARS SHINE IN SAN DIEGO: Betty White, A&O’s sparkling Board member, received the Petco Foundation’s Hope Award. It was big and beautiful, like Betty White’s heart (and Betty hoped that she could get it in her car). She was adored by the attendees, as were many of her friends that also came to pay their respects to the amazing occasion. Ed Asner, that rascal, was in great form as were Cindy Williams, Doris Roberts, Nancy Dussault, Loretta Swit, Fred Willard, and Claudia Bassols (from Rob), and of course Jo Anne Worley, who is the magnificent President of Actors and Others for Animals. The Actors and Others Board of Directors were there to host the VIP Reception and bestow this year’s “Betty White Award” to Ed Asner. Fortuitously, Betty White presented Ed with the award, which she had been honored with in 2011. It seems incestuous in the best of ways.…

Betty and Ed, together again, supporting animals and the Petco Foundation that support animal organizations.

For those of us who traveled from LA, the Gala’s location was spectacular. The Sheraton San Diego Hotel & Marina allowed us to stay, and play, right on the bay. Their Club allowed us to meet with friends from the Gala the following morning, while enjoying a really good breakfast, and dishing about the magical evening in their huge ballroom. It was great to see Sue Taylor, Actors and Others Exec., finally relax after working so diligently for A&O’s part in the event. And, to meet up once more with Paul Jolly, the astounding Executive Director of The Petco Foundation.…

PAUL JOLLY: Paul is a gentleman, a quiet man with a heroic voice for animals. The leadership of Petco could not have chosen a more inspiring Executive Director for their flourishing Foundation (Thank you, President Charlie Piscitello). At the Gala, Paul took the stage and told a story of a pet rescue, hope, sadness, and more hope. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room (David was sobbing), but it gave life to the purpose of the evening, to raise funds to help keep pets out of harm’s way. And so the money started flowing, via a vital donating whirlwind (led by auctioneer Larry Zucker) that had Betty White standing and declaring the first munificent offering. This was followed by a real live auction of fantastic offerings, while an ongoing Opportunity Drawing and a colossal Silent Auction was taking place. Paul Jolly and his wondrous staff made this happen. And that is just the fundraising.

The Petco Foundation’s mission is to raise the quality of life for pets and people who love and need them. I want you to know more about the endless good that this amazing foundation does for our country. Check the internet and learn about the local and national help that supports over 7,500 pet partners, the 3.3 million animals saved through their stores, and the $90 million dollars already raised and donated. The disaster relief, puppy mill intervention, adoptions, education, constant efforts to prevent overpopulation, and the basic training for owners and pets. So heartening!

It’s also heartening to have the blessing of working with Paul Jolly on the Actors and Others Board of Directors. He came to us after calling for help regarding one of his many rescues. With his appreciation, he became a volunteer, and one of the best things that has ever happened to our organization. With Paul’s wit and wisdom, professional know-how, dedication, and generosity of spirit, he has made us a better organization and, as individuals, better human beings. The word “inspiration” is too small for Paul Jolly. I truly love him.

With eternal hope, we’ll Talk….

A LEAP OF FAITH FOR SAG-AFTRA MERGER

The cast of “Modern Family,” proudly holding their SAG Awards, is for the SAG-AFTRA merger.

Again, with faithful countenance, and cheerful semi-patience, the time to Vote is upon us, the membership of the Screen Actors Guild and the American Federation of Television and Radio Artists, to gain strength and security as one union. As in all super significant things, there are different opinions. And, following my head and my heart, I sincerely believe in the future of SAG-AFTRA. One union.

The minority who are opposed have doubts that this can or should work, and desire answers to questions that cannot be answered. Here’s the Catch-22: We all want to know how the Health and Retirement Funds will work when the unions are merged. Now, each individual union’s plans are private entities with their own Board of Governors. They lawfully have to do their daily work until the merger is a done deal. When it is, the blending process can begin. And here is where the Trust begins. Do we believe that the Funds, where half the Governors are performers, want to make this work to benefit performers? Why would they not? Some doubters are of the mind that they are “out to screw us,” and send wild flinging emails. They file the usual lawsuits to derail the merger. I have great respect for some of those who doubt the deal, and I even love a few very much, but it’s time to agree to disagree.

So, I’m with the leap of faith, fellow players. Like our own United States of America, a new Constitution is rarely a perfect thing. With time and experience, amendments have been made to form a more perfect union.

Luckily, SAG-AFTRA offers a very good Constitution. Read it yourself on the union’s web pages — many of our biggest stars have. Lauren Bacall and John Turturro have joined the pro-merger bandwagon. Their names will be added to the list of endorsers on the unions’ sagaftra.org site alongside George Clooney, Tom Hanks, Olivia Spencer, Rosanne Cash, Alec Baldwin, Sally Field, Tony Shalhoub, Jon Cryer, Kate Walsh, and Robert DeNiro. The cast of Hawaii Five O and the cast of Modern Family are in … plus so many more. These are very centered people who believe in SAG-AFTRA.

So do Betty White and Louis Black.

These are working actors who are for this merger. They have a lot at stake and would not support anything that would hurt themselves and other performers. They know that with the two different actors unions that the power of collective bargaining is diminished. The answer: ONE UNION.

Decades ago, some union members had the strength and determination to fight for a Health Plan and for a Pension Plan and for residuals. They took risks for the future actors. We must never forget this bravery. And now is the time to take our own risks for the future actors who will need a strong union to protect them in these complicated days. No one knows where our work will pop up with all the technology beyond our wildest imagination. A powerful union, undivided, is the only logical way to go. This is an idea whose time has finally come, again. And now.…

Check the Statement of Support and the signers. Read the documents. Be really informed, not just frightened off.

With a tidy mind, body, and spirit, I clearly support leaping into all things good.

LEAP FOR HEALTH 

Systemically, physical leaping is good and aids the digestive system. I learned this on a detox weekend with my girl friend Yuki Morita Scott. We leapt into the “We-Care” concept and are chewing on our food and our thoughts, saying “Thank you” everyday, and avoiding stress. I’ll take this moment to thank Yuki for being my own personal Don Quixote-ette, on the courageous quest to gain health and to lose bloat. And on our way home from this peaceful place, we experienced the giant freeway jam on the 10, that made the front page of the Times. Lucky for our faithful countenance, we endured the five-hour wait, if not cheerfully, at least semi-patiently.

Ready for the fray, we’ll Talk….

Sheri Lawrence at the Super BowI: I’d like to share my daughter-in-law’s joy. Sheri is President of Tylie Jones & Associates and a Super Giant’s fan.

I want to Talk about my thrilled-ness for my daughter-in-law Sheri’s Super Bowl time (It was Super!) and the swirl of happenings in the historic effort to achieve a powerful new Union for performers. So many in our community are involved in the entertainment industry, so please spread this good news … And Meryl was in the hood!

MERYL VOTES “YES”

A screening of The Iron Lady brought the celestial Meryl Streep to NOHO’s Television Academy. After an extraordinary Q&A, she graciously signed autographs for the first row fans. On a whim, I went down to the stage and had the opportunity to ask her a question: “Ms. Streep, are you for the SAG-AFTRA merger?” She raised her head and most definitely said, ‘Yes, yes I am. I am for this!” I thanked her and mentioned that I was a Board Member and appreciated her support. Then she leaned down and said, “Thank you for your service.” A gratifying moment that left me pumped up until, well, I haven’t gotten over it yet. I’m deeply in love with her — I don’t care who knows it. From the reaction of the Academy audience, I’m not the only one. And Meryl, truly a First Lady of films, is not the only one who is for this new union … some words from a few members of SAG and AFTRA.

SAG’S FIRST LADY, LINDA HOWARD

Meryl Streep. Generously signing autographs at the Television Academy after a screening of “The Iron Lady.”

“As a member since 1982 and a former President of the Stuntwomen’s Association of Motion Pictures, Inc., I understand the urgency of the need for merger. I’ve seen our employers grow stronger while we remain divided, and I know merger is the best way to strengthen ourselves and protect the future. It’s the last thing Management wants us to do, because they will lose the ability to play one union against the other. Merger will increase our bargaining strength and it’s a critical opportunity to determine the best way to adapt to the changes in technology we’re facing.

“As the wife of the President, I see a man who has worked extremely hard for three years in a non-paying position, even though it has actually caused him to lose some work opportunities. I’ve seen the time and effort that he and many selfless others have given to achieving this goal on behalf of members. I know some people assume this is automatic because it’s clear how many members need it to happen, but this is too important to take for granted….”

Linda Howard, Mrs. Ken Howard.

And, a few more working members in our neighborhood:

PAUL ROGAN: “I am very much in favor of the union merger. Coming from a country [the UK] with one union for all types of actors, I never saw the sense of splitting our negotiating power and having to navigate several sets of dues, joining fees, and health plans.” I asked Paul about his popular Impro schedule and he replied, “Impro Theatre’s next production (thank you for asking!) is Jane Austen Unscripted at the Pasadena Playhouse for the month of March (improtheatre.com). I perform and co-direct with Dan O’Connor.” And he finishes with, “I’m sure the merger is going to make a lot of people very happy.”

EILEEN BARNETT: She is also for the merger and this Sherman Oaks’ actress is currently starring in the award-winning Musical Theatre Guild’s presentation of Little Women. David and I are going to the final performance Sunday, Feb. 19, at the Scherr Forum at the Thousand Oaks Civic Arts Plaza. We are such fans of Eileen’s and the Musical Theatre Guild. Based on the classic novel, this Tony Award-nominated musical is a real winner! Ticketmaster might be a good call.

BOBBIE BATES: “Yes!” Check out Bobbie on Facebook; this North Hollywood dancer has been on the planning committee and has done nothing but good for both SAG and AFTRA. Her explanations are concise and wise. She states, “I hope you will all realize the importance of this merger to the future of our unions.” Thanks for your service, Bobbie, as an Iron Lady once said to me.

THE NEW UNION

The time to vote is at hand; the ballots should be in the mail.

We’ll Talk!

Croquet anyone? The gorgeous exterior lawn at the much awarded hotel, Chewton Glen.

I want to Talk about being home, by necessity … cold reality, actually. Willfully, I am in my cozy quarters taking care of taxes, some bits and dabs of dermatology, celebrating birthdays with old friends, and involved with the windup of the AFTRA/SAG decisions to form a new union — while avoiding the winter chill of England.

David is there now, at Milford on Sea. We visit daily via Skype and today he signed off by telling me he is off to Chewton Glen to relax in their spa. What was I thinking? I’m feeling a strong yen for that loveliest spot in Britain, a country known for its lovely spots.

Non-traveler’s remorse?

CHEWTON GLEN: David, full of details, is keeping me up to speed on my favorite fantasy place, this endlessly awarded resort hotel, knowing how tempting it is to drop everything and take a jet to their Hydrotherapy Spa (speaking of jets!). It’s comforting just thinking of those warmed chaise lounges around the whirling pool. I have a picture of David under the tall swan-like power jet that buffets one’s neck muscles and massages the brain. Couldn’t we all use that around now? You don’t have to use your imagination, just take a virtual tour via Google and see for yourself: There is only one Chewton Glen.

UP IN THE AIR: It seems that Chewton Glen is undergoing a supreme makeover conceived by our special friend (and managing director) Andrew Stembridge. David taunted me with a tale of Andrew driving him around the gorgeous property, between the sea (just a 15 minute walk to the beach) and the ancient New Forest. He is blown away by the new development: amazing Tree House suites, deep in the wilds of the Chewton Glen property, yet minutes from the scenic approach to the main building.

Tree houses on stilts, the new development at Chewton Glen, ready for summer.

No fair! Where is my croquet mallet? I want to go play. It’s so Andrew, to make a peaceful play land for grown ups. A romantic and private world deep in the woods, yet just a golf cart away from the main building. Six intriguing buildings, all on stilts! They will be ready in time to celebrate the summer. I might propose this thought, if you are going to London: Give some time on either side of your journey to really indulge yourself at Chewton Glen. My cousins just stayed there prior to a cruise from Southampton and didn’t want to leave. The dining at the hotel certainly outshines most other venues. And you can guarantee the country freshness as the veggie garden, well-used by their kitchen, is now expanded, and their enormous orchard promises fresh fruits year round. The newly designed dining room is named Vetiver (fragrant extract from root of Indian grass, used in perfumes and aromatherapy), and has new green leather seating, in tune with the hotel’s philosophy of “Green.” A new young Head Chef Andrew du Bourg, fresh from 11 years at top London eateries, joins acclaimed Executive Chef Luke Matthews. Cruise the internet to see the gorgeous platings. With a dining facility spread over five rooms including a wine room, there will be room for all (except the ninny who chose to stay in Los Angeles with too much fish to fry).

BIG FISH: As I’m finishing this column, the Joint National Boards of the Screen Actors Guild and the American Association of Television and Radio Artists are taking a brief break in a long day. This is a big reason to stay in L.A., as it’s time to decide on the merger of these two great unions. This was an informational meeting and next weekend is the time for each union board to gather separately and vote up or down to proceed with a new union. If both vote yes, then a referendum will be sent out to all the members, the final deciders. It’s all very confidential, but when we’re allowed to discuss it, you know …

We’ll Talk….

Well, then I must face weight loss, so hard to put in black and white, but all those amazing meals while traveling do creep up on one. So strength be mine (please send positive thoughts). Meanwhile, I’d be a bad friend if I didn’t mention our last Paris dining miracle. Blame it on Mary Willard. Fred and Mary had just returned from Paris and I asked for any special tips. Mary said, “Jules Verne.” Mon Dieu.

ALAIN DUCASSE IN THE EIFFEL TOWER

View from Le Jules Verne on the Eiffel Tower.

Walking up towards the Eiffel Tower, our excitement was palpable. David told me I could go any place I wanted to on our final day in Paris and I, with assurance, told him Jules Verne. It was nervy, but Mary said. We found their special little elevator and went up the Tower and into this heavenly place. Le Jules Verne Restaurant is beyond words, but it’s not beyond viewing on a divine website. Gaze and dream, or maybe, make a reservation. (If Paris is in your future, reserve now; it’s a hot ticket to a magnificent and delicious experience: http://www.lejulesverne-paris.com/.)

This is a possible dream. Pricey? Oui! Worth it? Oui oui. Our week day lunch was 85 Euros. They offer wine by the glass, and food by the gods. The meal is as superb, and as beautiful, as the views — the best in Paris. Out the windows, the city surrounded us and we could see beyond to the far away countryside. And, please use the washrooms; they had Lucite fixtures, even the toilet! Naturally, David wants one. So dear readers, I wish you Paris and the magic of Le Jules Verne.

MAGNA-CARTA

“Can’t you hear me callin’, Caroline?” — Our new cow from Magna-Carta.

Last year’s Paris trip was my favorite. So here is my final, most wonderful memory as I plow into 2012. A Boutique became a focal point of our stay. I was doing a little power-walk\window shopping on rue de Bac one morning when I stopped in my tracks at number 101. A gently appealing gift shop, called Magna-Carta, had some paper mâché animal heads mounted on the walls. So beautiful, real, amusing, personal art, totally unique. Most of Magna-Carta’s merchandise are perfect gifts, like paper goods, toys, specialized items that make it a go-to place when a present is required. But the animal heads, wow! It seems they are made by two sisters in Paris and are like nothing I’ve ever seen. See them, and other darling merchandise, at their very pleasant and happy website: www.magna-carta.fr. When you get to the site, click on “Les nouvelles” and then to “Petit bestiaire en papier mâché” and view the blog with pictures of a camel, rhino, deer, and other majestic creatures large and small.

The animals mesmerized me. The problem was: Which one? I came back with David and he offered me one for my birthday. We settled on the cow, simple but perfect for us. (I took pictures to keep memories and show pals and now their beautiful rhino head is in Yuki and Cedric Scott’s home, along with a charming little chicken.)

Such imagination and choice of themes. Our cow, Caroline, named after the “Gypsy” cow, is white and covered with delicate antique sheet music. Yuki and Cedric’s rhino, named Jackie, is white with Japanese waves and soothing flowers making it so beautiful.

This Boutique is owned by a lovely young family, who are now our friends. David really admired a fantastic rooster so we both secretly purchased one to be shipped home. Luckily the dear shop owners figured it out. And, they do fool proof packing, which is another art. The only problem is we both want a camel. C’est la vie, such is life.

Here’s to living with loss, and loving life.

We’ll Talk….

The endless dessert at Taillevent. Lucky Lawrence and Lawrence.

CHRISTMAS-HANUKKAH: This is a year when Hanukkah and Christmas meet, offering a double glow of joy and family celebrations, full of intended beneficence.

Whoa: More than a few friends have expressed a paralysis, a jolt. Where to begin? And how to meet one’s own expectations? Whoa. Slow down now, take it easy — whoa. Deep breath, a glimmer of reality, and let the spirit move you. Here’s where I’ll wish you a peaceful and Merry Christmas, and a Hanukkah that’s full of family and love. Blessings. Easy now….

WILLARD WORLD: It’s always jolly to think about Fred and Mary Willard. Besides cheering their friends with a Christmas songfest (at their most Christmassy house), Fred is appearing at the El Portal in (back by popular demand) A Cinderella Christmas, along with a bevy of talented television stars. They open Dec. 22 and that will surely bump up the Christmas spirit! And check out “Fred Willard’s MoHo’s Sketch Comedy Group.” Writers and performers creating fun together. The Energizer Bunny is a wuss next to Fred. Hooray for talent. Hooray for local theatre. And Hooray for the mighty wonderful movies that are overflowing at the close of 2011.

I want to throw in a huzzah for the stunning film Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. There is something amazing here that all who respect performance must see. After winning Teen Jeopardy, Thomas Horn was spotted to audition, and was cast in an integral role. It’s like an extraordinary, insightful, brilliant young human brushed by this motion picture and left a bit of genius for us all to appreciate and wonder. Whatever Thomas Horn chooses do with his gifted life, the afterglow of his first time in the movies will stay with me for the rest of mine.

TAILLEVENT: If Paris is your Holiday destination, I must mention Le Restaurant Taillevent. Be sure and make a reservation, no matter when you might be there, as it is historically wonderful and very popular with Parisians and visitors alike. Recently celebrating its 65th anniversary, a question was asked: “Is your cooking traditional or contemporary?” The answer: “We unceasingly renew tradition.” And, it is unceasingly terrific. This restaurant manages to evoke a well-bred, respectful, distinctly French air that’s at the same time totally comfortable. Starting with the staff and their respect for the client, the seasons, and high quality. The owner, Valeri Vrinat, daughter of one of the world’s most celebrated chef/ restaurateurs, sets the tone. Taillevent’s Director, Jean-Marie Ancher, follows through, takes pleasure in welcoming you, and takes care of your happiness while you are under this roof. Alain Soliveres, Head Chef, strongly believes in tradition and innovation, his motto, “Haute cuisine is based on simplicity.” Simply special, I say. And now, the not-so-simple Pastry Chef, the young Matthieu Bijou, has a strong belief in exigency and precision, his motto, “Tout mon savoir-faire au service de la gourmandise et des gourmands.” Trust me, he succeeds.

Here are some Le Restaurant Taillevent’s significant dates: 1946, opened at the end of WWII; 1948, First Michelin Star; 1954, Second Michelin Star; 1993, Third Michelin Star; 2011, Jackie Joseph-Lawrence enjoys her first lunch at Taillevent.

The website is delectable, Google, oogle, viewgle. And in the top left corner, under the word “Taillevent,” click on the British flag for English. I’ll leave you with a few words to savor, Mille feuille de saumon fume, Au bois de hêtre et raifort (see the photo, I hope), and in boring English, Risotto with Mushrooms, Salmon, a wine list of great distinction … It was the most beautiful and delicious lunch topped by a dessert that was a delicate parade of sweets, with a granita made with grenadine, pink champagne, and mint tea. I long for it all now … until next time….

We’ll Talk.

The Glorious Paulanna, owner of Pergolina.

I want to Talk about being a Tolucan, and the generational charm of the merchants and attendants at the renowned Toluca Lake Holiday Open House. Having lived in Toluca Lake over 30 years, it doesn’t matter where I am, where I live, I’m always a Tolucan. Attending last Friday’s Open House was like being in a time-jumping adventure: old and new, past and present. Seeing neighbors from then, seeing their grown children (and their children) from now … and seeing Hair Stylist George Caroll, who transcends time.

NEW: The first shop we peeked into was Zookies. I asked Lora Jakobsen, the lovely owner, how long this happy store has been there. “An hour,” she calmly replied. I recommend a visit, for a smile and maybe a perfect gift. Its charming, child oriented offerings, are practical and imaginative. I’d like to decorate a Princess Crown for myself, to suit my private fancy, and seriously, the lively bibs and art smocks would be a boon for adults who are tired of spraying pasta sauce or salad dressing on whatever we are wearing. (I have been crusading for Adult Bibs and lovely Lora said she might create some, yea!) May Zookies, on Forman just north of Riverside, enhance our hood for many more delightful hours.

The Enchanting antique clown decor, among the infinite treasures of Pergolina.

FAMILIES CONTINUE: There is something about continuity that that warms the heart. Two of Toluca Lake’s legendary shops have been there for me for my lifetime. Neighbors on Riverside Drive, just east of Forman, both Generales & Generales and Pergolina are owned and run by the children of the previous shop owners. They have done honor to their history. At the Open House, it was déjà vous seeing the mothers, the originals, attending the happy events and looking so timelessly beautiful.

Helen Ohanion shined and, speaking of constancy, made her famous baklava. The elegant wife of the late Van Ohanion must be so proud of her daughter Sylvia and son-in-law Peter Generales. Generales & Generales maintains the high-end and hip jewelry and services that can create treasure to your design, or repair our old watches. They have a lovely Internet site, so check the possibilities for you and yours. And see their window with a tiny train toting shining jewels around the glittery and choice offerings.

Lora Jakobsen, founder of Zookies, a brand new gift shop for the young and young at heart.

Rose Chimo is the mother of vivacious Paulanna Cuccinello, who is the magically inspired owner of the “one-of-a-kind home, gift, and garden boutique,” Pergolina. It’s the same venue where Anthony and Rose Chimo ran the famed Flowers by Anthony Rose shop for 45 years. I asked Paulanna where to find Rose and she said, “She’s the glamorous blond greeting the crowd.” Rose is really a dish, and claims that her Pilates, at Align and Define, are keeping her strong. To define Pergolina’s energy and beauty, take a look at the women involved. The shop’s European items are whimsical and gorgeous. The Pierrot-ish clowns, bearing banners of “Good Cheer” are the décor that dreams are made of. You can bank on finding originality and beauty; their website will prove me right. And remember the grand gift-wrapping, from wherever you get your gift. It’s a fine family tradition!

Toluca Lake is a majestic neighborhood full of loving people, and it’s a wondrous place to shop, eat, wander, wonder, and do business in general. Thanks to all the merchants for their goods and the goodies, for Santa and Fritz, the wine, cider, cookies, Irish Stew, pizza, popcorn, ham, and tuna tartare(!). To the Pipers and the Drums, the trolley and to all The Tolucan Times readers who said sweet things about this (intentionally) sweet column, Cheer,

We’ll Talk…. 

PS: As the Seabees song requires, “And we promise to remember, the 7th of December….”